The origin of Valentine's Day: Love through the ages

De oorsprong van Valentijnsdag: Liefde door de eeuwen heen - Belle Epoque

Ah, Valentine's Day! The day of roses, chocolate, and romantic cards. But where does this day actually come from? Is it just a clever invention of shopkeepers, or is there more behind this worldwide phenomenon? Time to dive into history and unravel the mystery of Valentine's Day!

The story of Saint Valentine

There are several legends about the origin of Valentine's Day, but the most well-known goes back to a Christian priest named Valentinus, who lived in the 3rd century AD. At that time, the Roman Emperor Claudius II forbade young men to marry because he believed they would be better soldiers if they remained single. Valentinus found this unjust and secretly married couples in love. When the emperor discovered this, Valentinus was arrested and eventually executed on February 14.

According to legend, he sent a letter just before his death to the daughter of his jailer, whom he was said to have healed from blindness. He signed the letter "From your Valentine" – a phrase still used on Valentine's cards today.

The transition to a celebration of love

Although the origin is tragic, Valentine's Day became more and more a celebration of love and romance in the centuries that followed. In the Middle Ages, people believed that February 14 was the day birds chose their partners, which contributed to the romantic atmosphere of the day. Poets like Geoffrey Chaucer wrote about Valentine's Day in their works, and soon it became an occasion to surprise loved ones with love letters and flowers.

From handwritten letters to mass production

In the 18th and 19th centuries, people began sending Valentine's cards en masse. Especially in England and America, it became a popular tradition. Thanks to the industrial revolution, cards could be printed in large quantities, making them accessible to everyone. Today, there are countless ways to show your love, from personalized gifts to luxury dinners – but the thought behind Valentine's Day remains the same: letting someone know how much you care about them.

How is Valentine's Day celebrated worldwide?

Valentine's Day is celebrated in different ways around the world. In Japan, for example, women give chocolate to men, and a month later (on "White Day") men give something back. In Denmark, lovers send each other snowdrops instead of roses. And in some countries, like Finland, Valentine's Day is more about friendship than romance.

Tips for an unforgettable Valentine's Day

Whether you're planning a romantic evening or just want to show your appreciation to friends and family, Valentine's Day is the perfect moment to reflect on love in all its forms. Here are some ideas:

  • Write a personal letter or card.
  • Plan a surprise date or organize a home cinema.
  • Give a gift with emotional value, such as a photo book full of memories.
  • Send a bouquet of fragrant roses to your loved one or a good friend as a surprise. This classic symbol of love and appreciation is always a bullseye.

Conclusion
Although Valentine's Day has evolved over the centuries, the essence remains the same: celebrating love and showing that you care about someone. Whether you go all out or keep it simple, it's about doing it your way. Because as Valentinus taught us: true love knows no bounds!